NETWORK YOUR WAY TO SUCCESS
Most people look for jobs by submitting applications or resumes in response to job vacancies. However, the best way to find a job is to network with family, friends, and acquaintances - asking them for job information, advice, and referrals. Test your networking I.Q. with this exercise:
Instructions: Respond to each statement by indicating which number beneath the statement best represents your situation.
1 = Strongly agree
2 = Agree
3 = Maybe, not certain
4 = Disagree
5 = Strongly disagree
- I enjoy going to business and social functions where I have an opportunity to meet people.
1 2 3 4 5
- I usually take the initiative in introducing myself to people I don't know.
1 2 3 4 5
- I enjoy being in groups and actively participating in group activities.
1 2 3 4 5
- On a scale of 1 to 10, my social skills are at least a "9."
1 2 3 4 5
- I listen carefully and give positive feedback when someone is speaking to me.
1 2 3 4 5
- I have a friendly and engaging personality that attracts others to me.
1 2 3 4 5
- I make a special effort to remember people's names and frequently address them by their name.
1 2 3 4 5
- I carry business cards and often give them to acquaintances from whom I also collect business cards.
1 2 3 4 5
- I have a system for organizing business cards I receive, including notes on the back of each card.
1 2 3 4 5
- I seldom have a problem starting a conversation and engaging in small talk with strangers.
1 2 3 4 5
- I enjoy making cold calls and persuading strangers to meet with me.
1 2 3 4 5
- I usually return phone calls in a timely manner.
1 2 3 4 5
- If I can't get through to someone on the phone, I'll keep trying until I do, even if it means making 10 more calls.
1 2 3 4 5
- I follow up on new contacts by phone, email, or letter.
1 2 3 4 5
- I have friends who will give me job leads.
1 2 3 4 5
- I frequently give and receive referrals.
1 2 3 4 5
- I have many friends.
1 2 3 4 5
- I know at least 25 people who can give me career advice and referrals.
1 2 3 4 5
- I don't mind approaching people with my professional concerns.
1 2 3 4 5
- I enjoy having others contribute to my success.
1 2 3 4 5
- When I have a problem or face a challenge, I usually contact someone for information and advice.
1 2 3 4 5
- I'm good at asking questions and getting useful advice from others.
1 2 3 4 5
- I usually handle rejections in stride by learning from them and moving on.
1 2 3 4 5
- I can sketch a diagram, with appropriate linkages, of individuals who are most important in both my personal and professional networks.
1 2 3 4 5
- I regularly do online networking by participating in newsgroups, mailing lists, chats, and boards.
1 2 3 4 5
- I regularly communicate my accomplishments to key members of my network.
1 2 3 4 5
- I make it a habit to stay in touch with members of my network by telephone, email, and letter.
1 2 3 4 5
- I regularly send personal notes, birthday and holiday greeting cards, and letters on special occasions to people in my network.
1 2 3 4 5
- I still stay in touch with childhood friends and old schoolmates.
1 2 3 4 5
- I have a great network of individuals whom I can call on at anytime for assistance, and they will be happy to help me.
1 2 3 4 5
- I belong to several organizations, including a professional association.
1 2 3 4 5
- I consider myself an effective networker who never abuses my relationships.
1 2 3 4 5
- Others see me as a savvy networker.
1 2 3 4 5
____________________________________TOTAL:______
Add up the numbers you circled. If your total score is above 155, you're most likely a savvy networker. If you're below 120, you're probably lacking key networking skills. You need to strengthen them.
Who might be in your network? Develop a list of people whom you can contact for job information and advice. They might include the following:
Friends (see Christmas list) | Ministers/church members |
Relatives (close/distant) | Association contacts |
Neighbors (current/former) | Club members |
Social acquaintances | Direct-sales people |
Classmates | Doctor/dentist/optician |
College alumni | Lawyer/accountant |
Teachers | Insurance agent |
Bank managers | Tradespeople |
Co-workers | Former employers |
SOURCE: Adapted from Ron Krannich, Ph.D., The Re-Entry Employment and Life Skills Pocket Guide (Manassas Park: Impact Publications), pages 30-32. Copyright 2009. All rights reserved.
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