NETWORK YOUR WAY TO SUCCESS

Most people look for jobs by submitting applications or resumes in response to job vacancies. However, the best way to find a job is to network with family, friends, and acquaintances - asking them for job information, advice, and referrals. Test your networking I.Q. with this exercise:

Instructions: Respond to each statement by indicating which number beneath the statement best represents your situation.

1 = Strongly agree
2 = Agree
3 = Maybe, not certain
4 = Disagree
5 = Strongly disagree

  1. I enjoy going to business and social functions where I have an opportunity to meet people.

    1 2 3 4 5

  2. I usually take the initiative in introducing myself to people I don't know.

    1 2 3 4 5

  3. I enjoy being in groups and actively participating in group activities.

    1 2 3 4 5

  4. On a scale of 1 to 10, my social skills are at least a "9."

    1 2 3 4 5

  5. I listen carefully and give positive feedback when someone is speaking to me.

    1 2 3 4 5

  6. I have a friendly and engaging personality that attracts others to me.

    1 2 3 4 5

  7. I make a special effort to remember people's names and frequently address them by their name.

    1 2 3 4 5

  8. I carry business cards and often give them to acquaintances from whom I also collect business cards.

    1 2 3 4 5

  9. I have a system for organizing business cards I receive, including notes on the back of each card.

    1 2 3 4 5

  10. I seldom have a problem starting a conversation and engaging in small talk with strangers.

    1 2 3 4 5

  11. I enjoy making cold calls and persuading strangers to meet with me.

    1 2 3 4 5

  12. I usually return phone calls in a timely manner.

    1 2 3 4 5

  13. If I can't get through to someone on the phone, I'll keep trying until I do, even if it means making 10 more calls.

    1 2 3 4 5

  14. I follow up on new contacts by phone, email, or letter.

    1 2 3 4 5

  15. I have friends who will give me job leads.

    1 2 3 4 5

  16. I frequently give and receive referrals.

    1 2 3 4 5

  17. I have many friends.

    1 2 3 4 5

  18. I know at least 25 people who can give me career advice and referrals.

    1 2 3 4 5

  19. I don't mind approaching people with my professional concerns.

    1 2 3 4 5

  20. I enjoy having others contribute to my success.

    1 2 3 4 5

  21. When I have a problem or face a challenge, I usually contact someone for information and advice.

    1 2 3 4 5

  22. I'm good at asking questions and getting useful advice from others.

    1 2 3 4 5

  23. I usually handle rejections in stride by learning from them and moving on.

    1 2 3 4 5

  24. I can sketch a diagram, with appropriate linkages, of individuals who are most important in both my personal and professional networks.

    1 2 3 4 5

  25. I regularly do online networking by participating in newsgroups, mailing lists, chats, and boards.

    1 2 3 4 5

  26. I regularly communicate my accomplishments to key members of my network.

    1 2 3 4 5

  27. I make it a habit to stay in touch with members of my network by telephone, email, and letter.

    1 2 3 4 5

  28. I regularly send personal notes, birthday and holiday greeting cards, and letters on special occasions to people in my network.

    1 2 3 4 5

  29. I still stay in touch with childhood friends and old schoolmates.

    1 2 3 4 5

  30. I have a great network of individuals whom I can call on at anytime for assistance, and they will be happy to help me.

    1 2 3 4 5

  31. I belong to several organizations, including a professional association.

    1 2 3 4 5

  32. I consider myself an effective networker who never abuses my relationships.

    1 2 3 4 5

  33. Others see me as a savvy networker.

    1 2 3 4 5

____________________________________TOTAL:______

Add up the numbers you circled. If your total score is above 155, you're most likely a savvy networker. If you're below 120, you're probably lacking key networking skills. You need to strengthen them.

Who might be in your network? Develop a list of people whom you can contact for job information and advice. They might include the following:

Friends (see Christmas list)Ministers/church members
Relatives (close/distant)Association contacts
Neighbors (current/former)Club members
Social acquaintancesDirect-sales people
ClassmatesDoctor/dentist/optician
College alumniLawyer/accountant
TeachersInsurance agent
Bank managersTradespeople
Co-workersFormer employers

 

SOURCE: Adapted from Ron Krannich, Ph.D., The Re-Entry Employment and Life Skills Pocket Guide (Manassas Park: Impact Publications), pages 30-32. Copyright 2009. All rights reserved.